• Malica@lemmy.zip
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    21 days ago

    I urge young people to never suffer toxic people. Cut them from your life. Family too. Surround yourself with decent people and you’ll be so, so much happier.

    • thevoidzero@lemmy.world
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      21 days ago

      How do you meet new people though? With work and chores, there’s very limited time. And besides family and friends made through college, I don’t see any way to make friends easily, let alone friends that are like you or are good people in general

      • Malica@lemmy.zip
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        21 days ago

        That I don’t know. I’m 43 with zero friends besides my husband. Last one moved to Kentucky 5 years ago.

  • Broadfern@lemmy.world
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    22 days ago

    I either voraciously hit on/confess my affection to my SO or go on a super autistic scholarly lecture about some obscure special interest when I’m drunk and I’m lucky they put up with both in fairly equal measure lol

  • OneCardboardBox@lemmy.sdf.org
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    21 days ago

    When my now-spouse and I were dating, we once got pretty drunk together at a party and started crying because we felt sad for the infinite number of parallel universe selves who never met.

  • Pratai@piefed.ca
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    16 days ago

    Maybe find someone that doesn’t get drunk and shout at you either way?