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Cake day: July 31st, 2026

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  • If ‘The Real Her’ isnt what youre interested in? Well then 1. both you and her will have to talk about compromises that you two can work on together to stay together… 2. or youll have to just completely end the relationship if the compromises you two plan on making are too great for either of you to endure.

    There are no third options in cases like this. THIS is what makes real , long-lasting relationships so hard to come by and to keep : 1. Either the compromises involved for oneor many of the parties involved are too overwhelming and they have to leave or 2. someone has difficulty finding a person that is very much like the type of person theyll love forever because when their partner finally reveals who ‘The Real Them’ is like they end up REALLLLY like that ‘The Real Them’ version of that person.

    Thats how humanity has been when it comes to relationships for milenia that is problem how humanity will be like for ever. Take it or leave it , you dont have to play the game of dating if you dont want to. It is what it is.🤷🏿‍♂️

    Best of wishes to them and anyon else who is going through a similar situation.


  • Exactly. This IS the real her.

    If ‘The Real Her’ isnt what youre interested in? Well then 1. both you and her will have to talk about compromises that you two can work on together to stay together… 2. or youll have to just completely end the relationship if the compromises you two plan on making are too great for either of you to endure.

    There are no third options in cases like this. THIS is what makes real , long-lasting relationships so hard to come by and to keep : 1. Either the compromises involved for oneor many of the parties involved are too overwhelming and they have to leave or 2. someone has difficulty finding a person that is very much like the type of person theyll love forever because when their partner finally reveals who ‘The Real Them’ is like they REALLLLY like that person.

    Thats how humanity has been when it comes to relationships for milenia that is problem how humanity will be like for ever. Take it or leave it , you dont have to play the game of dating if you dont want to. It is what it is.🤷🏿‍♂️

    Best of wishes to them and anyon else who is going theough a similar situation.