Most likely, OP probably stop doing A, so his wife stopped doing B, so OP stopped doing C, and on and on. @fmlemmy@sh.itjust.works when’s the last time you bought you wife flowers, or cooked her favorite dinner, or slapped her ass?

You never stop dating. That’s how you keep a relationship happy and healthy. It sounds like your wife stopped dating you.

This might be controversial but, your wife should do #1-3 because the person that did those things is the person you fell in love with. You don’t just get to stop trying because your married, and that goes for you to.

This is almost like a theoretical question lol. I’ve been on plenty of first dates and I’ve proposed all of them. I think generally speaking that’s how most women prefer it, I can’t even think of a time where a woman seriously pushed to split the bill.

Tell him your not feeling well but, ask if he wants to come over to your place for pizza and a movie instead. Ask him to pick up tampons on his way over, gauge reaction from there lol 🤷