From my limited testing of tailscale a while back, I don’t see any reason it wouldn’t work. Saw no reason to switch from my wireguard setup.

It’s pretty much everywhere Plex is. The main issue is that it’s trickier to set up for sharing outside your LAN.

I went on a similar search when I ditched big tech a few years ago. I tried most of the options that were available at the time but I’m sure the landscape has changed now.

I’ve been happy with the shopping list manager built into https://github.com/TandoorRecipes/recipes with https://github.com/kitshn-app/kitshn

Also VQ and Avatar. Didn’t have high expectations of either but cautiously optimistic for Avatar. Slow horses never fails to meet the high standards they set with their first season.

I’m also enjoying Cupertino but I like everything the Kings put out.